Grieving the Man My Husband is Not

My husband is a good man. But he is not a perfect man. And he is not everything I originally dreamed of and hoped for in a man. He is more -in every sense of that word.  He is more than what I would have known to ask for, and he is more than what I would […]

Protecting our Boys from Male Stereotypes

We have many unspoken stereotypes for those of the male gender, and sadly in the Church as well.  And I get it.  I grew up around terms like “he’s all boy” or “he’s a boy’s boy”. And though I appreciate the sentiment, I’ve weaned them from my conversations. I used to think nothing of these […]

Is God Sexist?

Is God sexist?  There are a lot of opinions out there.  In the world and in the church, but what does God say about Himself? I love the story of Zelophehad’s daughters in the book of Numbers, chapter 27.  Israel was a patriarhcal culture.  Family lines and inheritance were traditionally determined by one’s gender.  But […]